Effects of Mobile Phones and SMS on Dating

sms and datingThe only way you wouldn’t have heard of SMS or texting is if you’ve lived your whole life under a rock. Texting has become very important in today’s world and mobile phone users are always on their phones, sending and receiving SMS.

Since the world is ever growing and developing and more than half of the world all use mobile phones today, the dating world has got caught up in the mobile phones and SMS rave. With the high rate of people dating online and the number of long-distance relationships, SMS has become a convenient way for people to maintain contact and keep in touch.

Today, you don’t need to have met who you’re having a conversation with or who you’re falling in love with to talk to them, with the SMS and instant messaging sites, the world has been pulled really close. Phones models like Samsung, Nokia, LG, are some of the phones that aid this SMS dating.

One of the characteristics of the SMS is the shortness of the message. Say you forgot something, you can easily send a message to your friend to get it for you: “Hey! Forgot my tab. Kip it 4 me & I’ll collect when we see.” Or say you want to change the time for a date or the venue, all you have to do is send an SMS.

How effective is SMS as a dating method? Well, all mobile phone makers include the SMS in their phones because basically, it brings money in for them.

A recent survey showed how far-reaching the effects that mobile phones and SMS have on dating are.

  • 10% of people have texted someone at one point in their lives. That is, they have used the SMS to pass message across to someone they probably didn’t know in person.
  • 38% of people have had their dates reply SMS sent while they were having conversations over dinner. That means that while they were talking, their date received an SMS on their mobile device and after reading the message, replied.
  • 17% of people have sent texts, either real or genuine to wriggle themselves out of a date that was not going well.
  • 8% of the people admit that their relationships had ended because their partner was addicted to their phone, which meant that the said partner responded to messages repeatedly while they were together.
  • 28% of people will rather text than have a long conversation.

There is no denying the fact that mobile phones and SMS have changed the way things are done, dating included. Those who want to find love and are open to trying new things can try out SMS dating and then provide feedbacks o how it went.

How To Avoid The Shady Side Of Dating – For Men

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The title has it all included, that’s right, this article is all about dating advice for Men. Men always look for a serious and long lasting relationship which is filled with stable bond and happiness, along with less drama and fights. However they still like to make their loved one’s angry every now and then, but they only do it because they love to see how women react. More like teasing, yet there are some women out there who don’t seem to understand this fun and happy moments of being in love, or dating.

Women however on the other hand are very emotional, their minds and reactions are like waves of the ocean. Sometimes they go so high, almost and sometimes just calm and peaceful to look at. Which is why it’s not always known to be the best time to mess with a woman, you never know what kind of a wave is inside that mind.

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The main reason that men end up with broken heart is because of their expectations. Some men tend to be really controlling over their loved ones, whereas the opposite gender begins to feel irritated and this indeed would lead to serious problems and might as well end up in a place where it shouldn’t. Yes, you know what I mean “you split” or “break up”. Then both of them begin to lose their faith in love and dating, and begins to shut down everyone around them which leads to a miserable and lonely life filled with nothing but a long beard and under eye darkness due to all the stress in your mind.

It is however best if both parties in a relationship would understand each other, and know that they both have equal rights and emotional feelings in their relationship. If one tends to take over everything, then in fact it is not going to be long lasting. When you are in a relationship, you are to be “One”, by one I mean, both your souls should be together as one, not separated as two.

In order to avoid the big traps of love failure and more, it is important that both parties have patients in their heart, and have zero percent “ego”. Ego can simply kill relationships within minutes. Even if a relationship has lasted several years, if one has ego then the entire relationship can break apart into bits and pieces and all those years would be nothing but memories in black and white.


Learn to let go of the problem even if you are right, don’t keep fighting to make your loved one feel wrong. If she is too stubborn to listen to you, then simply admit that it was your fault, embrace her and apologize. There is no win or lose when it comes to a relationship between two, failure or success, you both are equal to that too. Once you tell her that it is your fault, she will begin to calm herself, which makes her mind go over the problem and she would realize that it wasn’t your fault, but was hers. She would then understand that your love for her is way precious than hers for you. This is one very best way to make one understand to let go of ego and to be united as one forever. At least one of you should be matured enough when it comes to a relationship, if you both try to be kids at serious situations, then you would never be able to find someone who would suit you. Don’t wait for age to give you maturity, maturity comes from knowledge, not from time.

Relationship is something that we all look for, but in common we all look for a long lasting relationship. However most men tend to fall in love to gain physical pleasure. Women however they are not the type who would want to have such physical pleasure without at least dating you for over a year, or minimum of six months. There are several other women who tend to only have such physical contact after marriage, just like this, the types and characteristics of women vary. Having a relationship does not mean you should have physical pleasures, you do not fall in love for such pleasures, but because of how happy you feel when you are with them. This is love, and if you want physical pleasure, then my friend that is just lust. The big trap indeed is one’s way of thinking and reacting, if you both have mutual understanding, then there will not be any of these conflicts amid you both. Love today, and live for today, for tomorrow might never come.

Dating Tips That Creates Sexual Magnetism

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For all interactions with women, sensual tension is supreme. As the interactive charge or energy, its utilization is slight yet strong. The seduction public is full of varying sexual tension theories. Examples are cocky flirting and bantering, conveying sexual intent with the word ‘sexy’, combining false obstacles with obvious sexual interest and certainly the ancient speed seduction path – trying to insert sexual ideas in a lady’s mind via complex language exhibition.

Some methods are superior and can certainly boost the success and quality of pickups. A pure definition is preferred for sexual tension as it supports true sexual craving, and a natural means of heightening the tension a woman is feeling.

Sexual Tension: Blatant Sexual Interest Absence And Managed Arousal State Presence

At the right time, you can focus your sexual longing on your woman to create sexual tension,not explicit sexual advances. Sustain intrigue, a feeling of vagueness, which holds her attention, and steers her mind to sexual thoughts. You transfer your state to her, so she is currently aroused. Handling logistics via compliance and leadership techniques then becomes the only thing that remains.

Regulated Arousal State

A sexually stimulated state is vital for two main reasons. First, women adore sex. As he offers her pleasure, a sexually active man is priceless to a female. Men that get attracted to women equally attract ladies. The other reason happens to be extra slight. There is this ‘state-transfer’ phenomenon. Has a friend ever come by greatly excited while you were in a foul mood? Probably you ended up cheering up and smiling despite yourself because his mood influenced yours.

How Do Nervous People Influence Your Feelings

They make you nervous too! Remember when together with a lady, maybe your girlfriend, then she appeared clearly aroused and horny, but you were not into any sexual activity. Probably, her excitement excited you. It is the way humans hypnotize one another through daily life – they transfer their states to one another.

Can You Visualize Where This Could Lead In The Long Term

State transfer can happen on the psychic, metaphysical plane. Furthermore, no verbal communication is necessary for state transfers. Your voice faintly (or a little obviously) manifests your state, just as eye contact, body language, facial expressions, mode of touch and millions of other little actions, too tiny to micromanage do, when you are turned on.

How To Attain The Regulated Sexually Arousal State

Although a fraction, it is harder than just getting turned on. Arousal state regulation is quite important – you lose the ability to get aroused when uncomfortable and nervous. (Control of arousal state is important in seduction and life. It enables you to remain calm, extra productive and generally happy. It’s sometimes named enjoying ‘peace of mind’ or ‘remaining centered’ in spiritual language).

Experience is the best means of remaining comfortable and calm in any social situation. Get out there (sober of course), mingle more and talk to women to gain experience. Excellent diet, meditation, regular workouts and abstaining from dangerous extravagances like internet (pornography), television and drug misuse all help. Boosting the levels of your testosterone normally has an excellent effect on the ‘becoming turned on’ part. Natural testosterone boosting ways include zinc supplementation, regular sex (if possible), heavy weight exercises (dead-lifts, bench press, squats etc.) and consuming a lot of flesh protein. You have mastered getting aroused already. While interacting with ladies, simply concentrate on how sexy she will look when naked, or visualize having hot sex together or any other thoughts you can entertain which is real fun for you.

Generating Huge Sexual Arousal Tension

The sexual tension element is a genuine enlargement of the latter attraction hierarchy level – intrigue.  There are two ways in which one can describe intrigue. It could be viewed as not over-endorsing a lady, or making her fixate her attention on you via restraining information and being vague. These are two sides of a coin. Referred to sexual arousal tension, we move into the sexual state yet don’t voice our desires. She may or may not love it if we did, but she now knows her stand – she’s validated. That’s neither bad nor optimal. She now knows and has deciphered that you desire her, which makes you ‘solved’ – gives her an option of overlooking you and concentrating elsewhere.

Putting her in situations where she must consent or decline is another main point of voicing sexual interest. She must willfully confess that it’s heading for sex. Once more, that’s neither bad nor optimal, and can develop in her mind, an emotional block for isolating you sometimes. Visualize a sealed treasure chest before you while sitting in a room. You unseal it only to discover gold coins. How does a chest get more interesting?

Though coins are grand, the mystery is gone. As they aren’t going anywhere, you might even temporarily forget them and go view TV or visit a friend. But the chest stayed in your memory and commanded your attention before you knew what was in it. You are truly on the way if you have grasped the concept.